Approaching a man: open him up if he seems shy
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I've met an interesting new man at my workplace. From what I've seen of him, this guy and me have a lot in common and I think we would end up becoming very close friends. I try to talk with him but he seems to be very brief like he doesn't want to talk much with me. I like him a lot and I try to open him up but he seems shy or tries to keep his distance while watching me from far away.
I am definitely not trying to rush anything, but he tries to act all cool looking before me and yet when I try to talk with him, he's different and quieter. I really just don't know how to get through to him that I want to be friends with him.
When there is mutual interest involved toughest men would soften
Never underestimate the potency of the opposite sex when there is mutual interest involved. He might be physically strong on the outside but if he meets the right girl any guy can be turned into driveling lovesick puppies, and that goes vice versa with girls of course.
Concerning your problem it is very peculiar why he does not take the opportunity to talk to you when you try to communicate with him.
Pull a man towards you by drawing him into conversation
Could it be that he is so shy that your mere presence phases him out or is it really that he is not interested in you at all and just wants to mess with you?
If it is the former the only way that I can see for you to draw him into conversation is to create a situation whereby you can get him to assist you in some way.
If a man have serious feelings for you he might not know how to respond to initiative
Bottom line: You might be right in that when you have been messing with him that he might not know how to respond to it because he might have serious feelings for you?
If he does not and he was just messing with you all this time then you should try ignoring him completely and not make any eye contact or anything. Keep it up as long as necessary to make him understand that you are not to be trifled with. For more tips about drawing men into conversation, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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- When there is mutual interest involved toughest men would soften.
- Pull a man towards you by drawing him into conversation.
- If a man have serious feelings for you he might not know how to respond to initiative.
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