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I've introduced attractive man at workplace, and I would ask him out for a lunch. I couldn't think of anything to say. He's very attractive, but has a shy, reserved personality, like me.
I realized that I was starting to have a major crush on him. It wasn't lust; it was just a feeling of wanting to know more about him. However in a casual office chat I found out that he's just over the failed relationship and not willing to rush into new one. What's my chance to win him over?
If you have got a chance to start over I would have recommended that you check his ring fingers for any engagement / wedding bands as well as gathered insight on whether he was in a relationship or not.
Normally this would just involve asking a few questions here and there on what he got up to on the weekend etc.
When you do ask him make sure that you have a specific time, date and restaurant / cafe in mind. This will show him that you are organized and will assist in the smooth transition to the date should he be interested.
Since you will be asking him relatively out of the blue for a lunch date and you do not really know whether he is spoken for or not all you can really do is hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
Bottom line: I know that the time that you both smiled at each other was a special moment however I myself try to never get ahead of myself from reading too much into a particular incident.
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