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I've introduced attractive man at workplace. I've managed to have reasonably good interactions with him so far by being positive and confident. It's important for me to not start projecting fear, embarrassment, shame, etc...
It was easy to be relaxed when I didn't think about it leading to anything. Now that I'm actually single, it's different. I'm afraid what if he rejects me. Hope I could pull it off smoothly.
You will need to ask yourself what you would do if he said no. Would you still want him in your life as a friend? Is this something that you have thought about as an alternative?
If he becomes distant, back off; scale down the number of conversations, or even ignore him for a while (so far as possible without being rude). I'll go a step further and suggest that you practice these items on your friends, of both sexes.
One major thing that I would like for you to do is to stop thinking negatively about yourself. I do not want you to sabotage your chances with a man simply because you are too introspective. Stop fearing that you scare him away.
Think positively at all times and hold onto that strong emotion of getting to know him better! I know that you can do it!
Bottom line: While speaking to him, emphasize a point by touching him on the back, shoulder, arm, or wrist, depending on your position.
Paradoxically, the less nervous you are, the more innocent it seems. Act as if the touch doesn't mean anything special. Be sure to look at his face, NOT the point you're touching. For more tips about introducing yourself to men, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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Approaching men: The path of least resistance
Most women do not pick up on signs very well. So many girls miss it. A proactive approach which gets your mind thinking positively instead of negatively will lead to success ever playing in dating game. If you're trying too hard to find out what you're supposed to do, you're tuned into your own thoughts instead of the signals someone is sending you.
Power words: Start and keep the conversation going
There is a high possibility that a man is interested in you and would like to become more than friends with you. A man might test your interest in him in an excessive way, so just play it cool like he's not the first one to come up to you. More than likely he will stop the flirty moves unless he really likes you.
Lead conversation: Techniques for deepening communication
The key to being successful with men is to be confident and to have good interpersonal skills. In order for you to develop speaking confidently to men you will need to practice. Sometimes men expect women to have a sign up on their head saying "I like you" when they are trying to read and interpret the woman they are trying to create an interest in.
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