A man looked very formal and didn't give me obvious sign of interest
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I am very shy and have a hard time to approach men. I've approached a man at work and offered to go out sometime. Yet he looked very formal and didn't give me obvious sign of interest. I know some men are very traditional, but I feel like I showed enough interest that he could have at some point emailed me something, or even tried to say hi.
On the other hand, I feel like he could have really just ignored me and been more clipped in his responses if he wanted to send a “ stay away from me signal ” . And, he could have easily avoided sitting next to me on meetings. Also, some of his answers to my questions were surprisingly nice. Nonetheless, if he is, in any way interested in me he is definitely making it very difficult!
Get into situations where you see each other
Best way for you to get to know him is to get into situations where you see each other. Tease him and see what he is interested in.
You need to go out in a group setting! If your department is having a happy hour definitely include him. He may not go and have something to do, so don't feel down. Don't ask people last minute because chances are they will be busy. Also make him feel important.
Invite a man you're attracted to your group events
Bear in mind that also men assume ALL women are players and are a bit guarded when they first meet them. Here is your plan - invite him to your GROUP events. That way it safe and if he says no, who cares, you were just inviting him out along with some others supposedly.
Ask him if he uses instant messaging. It allows you to get to know people very well and the majority of young men use it. Men are romantic, and love to be asked “ how is your day going, what is new with you? ” Let him talk....
Make sure you look really cute - dress nice
Bottom line: So you need to do a few things. Make sure you look really cute, dress nice. Do not ignore him. By ignoring him he will assume you are not interested.
You have to lure him in and that comes after you. Go out to say lunch or a drink, it is like flirt and doesn't imply anything formal. Yet you have a space to pull yourself back if there were no interest signs. For more tips about courting and chatting up men, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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- Get into situations where you see each other regularly.
- Invite a man you're attracted to your group events.
- Make sure you look really cute - dress nice.
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