Flirting makes women feel good: let your imagination run wild
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I got attracted with a hot boss I had. Each time I talk to him he clams up. He's a couple of years younger then me and almost seems intimidated by me as if he doesn't know how to act around me and doesn't now what to say.
Sometimes I think he's shy and other times I think he probably hates me. I look confident but I'm actually not even though I'm a very attractive woman. How am I am going to find out what his actual thoughts are about me?
Let your imagination run wild
Flirting makes us feel good, and sometimes, we take that behavior further than it belongs with our own imaginations. Let your imagination run wild. You're not hurting anyone by doing that.
But let it stay in your head and don't ever tell. That "is he into me" question again.... If ever there is a time where anyone has to ask "is he into me"? Then I believe the answer is no. Because a man who is "into you" will let you know it, not just by flirting that goes nowhere, but also by asking you out.
Realize temptations shouldn't always be acted upon
Since he's your boss, he's smart enough to know that is not a good thing. Give him credit for that. Don't hope for a future with him. Take seriously a man who gives you eye contact, is single, and then asks you out......off the job.
Keep your dignity, and you'll keep your job. That doesn't mean your boss will stop being a "hottie", it means you are also smart enough to realize temptations shouldn't always be acted upon. Don't take "heavy eye contact" too seriously.
People really appreciate honest mind-set
Bottom line: Be always honest when responding to people, whether or not you're actually interested in them. I believe in honesty because I feel strongly that people appreciate that, and also, that is just who I am. Yes, your obstacle is this crush you have is on your boss.
Asking him can only do finding out the truth, and I certainly would not ask him. There is no classy way to do that. It would only be awkward, and afterward almost certainly regretted; especially if you find that his feelings are not mutual. For more tips about flirting with colleague, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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- Flirting makes us feel good, and sometimes, we take that behavior further.
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