Dating advice for women: signs of male attraction
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I have been working with this guy for about a month and we haven't really known each other for that long but after getting to know him I started to develop this crush on him. He knows I have my share of guys asking me out at work and outside of work so I just don't know why a guy wouldn't want to go out and get a beer or hang out. We have a lot of common interests.
Yet he still ranks low in a company, drives a car which is apparently not fancy at all, not as well educated, good looking (at least I think so) but was not attracted to him right away when I first met him. I have friends who tell me he is not good enough for me and that he knows this and wouldn't want to be exposed - as in I wouldn't approve of the real him.
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In regards to your friends who say that he isn't good enough for you is probably an unfair statement because even though he might not be so well educated and is making less money, all his actions so far have been exemplary.
As you yourself have stated, he is fun, he works hard and treats you with respect. Now if your are not good enough for a girl if you display these traits then what traits would you need?
Having a crush on your boss: mixed signals in relationships
Even though he might be a shy guy you have given him plenty of opportunities to contact you to get together either privately or with a group of friends. In that he has not made any efforts to ask you out or spend anytime with you, it sounds like he would rather be friends rather than boyfriend and girlfriend.
Guys will certainly make moves on girls that they like and considering that you are a very popular girl who has many guys yearning for your affections it might be the case that you have met your exception in him.
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Bottom line: Beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder and even though you might have a gorgeous guy that a majority of women would find attractive, to others he isn't all that.
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