Not attractive to men: how to guess if a man has a girlfriend?
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Since there are so many men, I believed I should at least be able to find someone who shares same values and beliefs in love. But I was wrong. Whenever I approached a man, I got:
1) "I've got a girlfriend" (true or not I don't know)
2) They just ignore me…
And I have asked directly / indirectly less than 10 men and I couldn't get one. What I learn is "personality" is nice, but "the look" is a necessity.
And then there are some men who are into status symbols, so there you go, those flashy women got them as well. I can identify with that. I haven't gone out as much because I am sick of going to events by myself.
What qualities a guy looks for in a girl?
If you are feeling "low self-esteem", "not worth it", "not handsome", etc., any of those negative feelings really DO show on the outside. Don't change how you look for OTHERS, change for yourself. Go to your mirror and ask yourself "am I happy with what I see?"
Do what you can to make YOU happy first, and then that happiness will be projected from the inner you to the OUTER YOU, which is what men, will see!
Sure signs of attraction: what is your perfect man's personality?
Don't be discouraged by the few who ignore you or say they have girlfriends. Go to your mirror and tell yourself "Yes I'm attractive woman" and keep saying it until you believe it.
Then keep approaching men, but DON'T take the approach too seriously. Their response should not make or break your day either way, because after all, when you left home, you were both "HOT!" and "HAPPY" and no one, NO ONE can take that from you.
Steps to overcome shyness with men and start talking
Bottom line: Don't set your sights on that one man as if you HAVE to have him....no, you don't. You have to be happy with YOU first. You don't have to LOOK like a million, but if you FEEL like a million, trust me, others will see that.
Before you know it, and when you least expect it, you'll make at least new friends, and maybe one of them will be next boyfriend. Looks fade, but personality lives on!!! For more tips about signs of romantic interest from men, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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- What qualities a guy looks for in a girl?
- Sure signs of attraction: what is your perfect man's personality?
- s to overcome shyness with men and start talking.