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There's this guy who gives me a classic case of mixed signals. Sometimes it feels like he's into me ... and then sometime it doesn't. He can talk in a personal manner with me. We also joke around and tease each other. However he had a girlfriend who he hasn't been seeing for some time, yet they didn't officially split up.
I was thinking about asking him how he felt about me. I don't want to be stuck with the "what if?" question. I want to know how he feels.
You really have to judge guys by their actions and not their words, and so far he hasn't made an effort to ditch the other girl. If you leave yourself a little shred of hope or loophole you will try to find it and won't move on.
Just tell yourself you want to find a boyfriend totally committed to you. You'll like him just as much and probably more than this guy, but he'll be totally there for you instead of split with another girl.
You have been giving this guy a lot of "flirty energy". You could now still spend time with him but withdraw the "flirty energy" or "interested vibe" and just act like he's your mate.
If he likes you, this will drive him mad, and he will do anything to get back that attention. He may start flirting with you in a serious way, it may not happen instantly because he will be confused and must consult his friends about this change in you.
Bottom line: If he does start flirting, don't respond automatically. If he REALLY LIKES YOU this will confuse him and he may ask you what's wrong. Play ignorant, ask him exactly what he means, and he will be forced to tell you...
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