Signs of attraction: A man likes me for superficial reasons
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I'm getting good at detecting whether or not a man is interested me. I was dating a guy who's kind of shy and according to him, he hasn't had a lot of experience in the whole dating / relationship game. I'm personally lacking in the relationship area myself. Now I met two guys, one quite shy, and the other outgoing and loud. As of now, I'm dating none of them.
By the second date, he jumped at the chance to introduce me to all his good friends. They were all saying, "he's very picky about her girls; he has a lot of girls going after him". For the moment I think he's treating me like a trophy. I think he likes me for superficial reasons. I think she likes the fact that other people could be jealous of her.
Signs that a man is attracted to a woman
It seems like this man is inexperienced in this whole dating game but it appears that if you get together with him then you will also have to deal with his followers.
If what you say is true in that he might be only using you, as trophy to parade around then whatever happens to you if you decide to stay with him will be well deserved. Some people who choose to ignore the obvious signs that the other person is not good for them do so at there own risk.
Dating the man that keeps you waiting
To the extent that you let a couple of months go past without initiating anything with him, tells him that you are not. And if he did know you are suspicious of his behaviour with friends around, he probably wouldn't appreciate it being second fiddle.
Yet having two guys at disposal seems to make you confused. If you want your complexity to be reduced then make a choice of which guy that you want to be with and concentrate on that one. At the moment you seem to have more than you can handle.
IS he playing with you: ending a relationship avoidance
Bottom line: Talking with guys, is on the other hand pleasurable task. You just go and do it. It sounds like some "above the rest of us" advice, but it is just what you have to learn. And you learn by doing it.
There is no better way to introduce men then spending time wit them. After a while you can tell more about her personality and if there was real interest in relationship. If you were just a trophy you can easily move to someone else. To learn how to tell if a guy is interested in you , refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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- Signs that a man is attracted to a woman.
- Dating the man that keeps you waiting.
- IS he playing with you: ending a relationship avoidance.