How to keep a conversation with a man interesting?
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For me it is always hard to approach men. There are so many questions to be answered before I approach them and get close.
Is he married already? Am I really attractive to him? I'm an average looking girl. Problem for me is how to make interesting conversation?
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It sounds like you have well developed interpersonal skills in regards to picking up on signs of interest from guys, approaching them and then following through by getting there contact details.
What I found quite perplexing was why you did not take the initiative to call him instead of waiting for him to call you? You can be 5"10, financially secure and attractive, however this is not going to make men throw themselves automatically at you.
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Some men would, but I do not think that you want a guy who was shallow and was only attracted to you because of your physical attributes and material possessions.
I'm afraid the rules of the girls doing the chasing have not changed much over the thousands of years that we have been on this planet. If you have strong attractions for a guy and regardless of whether he has your phone number or not, until you become attractive to him, it would be advisable for you to do the chasing.
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Bottom line: Do whatever is necessary to secure that first date with a man. He won't know that you are not a player until he actually gets an opportunity to sit down and have a talk with you. So, the sooner you get on that first date with him the sooner his misconceptions (if he has any) will be dispelled.
When you get an opportunity to go out with this guy show him what a great girl you are on the inside. You know that some of them will judge you wrongly so it will be up to you to prove to them that there is more to you than meets the eye. Show them how funny, charming and interesting you are and try to connect with her on that mental level. If you can do this then I'm sure that you won't remain single for long.
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