Attracting and dating for women: how to seduce a man?
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It seems like I can only charm and flirt with men I feel no attraction for, and they end up wanting me when I have no interest in them! I have been on dates before but have never had a real boyfriend or been kissed before and that gets me depressed when I think about it.
I just get really shy and nervous around men I'm attracted to. Now I'm attracted to a man who plays in a band, and would like to come up with original approach for him.
Key communication topics with men
Laughter is the best icebreaker. If you want to make an impression on a man then the thing that I would suggest that you do is that you go home and write him a song. It doesn't have to be long just a couple of tunes on whatever instrument it is that you play.
Then the next time that you see him at band practice you can say. "Hi < his name>, I wrote this song for you because I think that you are great. Please allow me to perform it for you!"
How to start a conversation with someone you like?
Then proceed to belt you tune out with gusto. Before you know it he will be so impressed by your playing that he will be putty in your hands. Either that or he would find it extremely funny and you can take it from there
I could guess how well you are acquainted with this man but it might be easier to ask her out if you establish some sort of rapport with him first.
Things to say to keep a conversation going
Bottom line: Begin by smiling at him and saying hello every time that you see him. Then when the opportunity is right, go up there and introduce yourself.
Start with short conversations initially and then build up to longer ones when you get to know him better. Once you become fairly well acquainted with him just ask him casually to lunch or coffee.
If you have chemistry together then the rest will fall into place. If not then that's okay too and you can move on to someone else. For more tips about seducing men, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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