Why men don't call back: couple of dates with a guy who treated me wonderfully?
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I went out on a couple of dates with a guy who treated me wonderfully. On each date, he took me to the trendiest spots in town, ordered expensive dishes and wine, then he stopped calling. We had such a great chemistry, I though we would see each other for a while.
I liked the guy very much and he acted like a gentleman, without pushing me to do anything I didn't want to do. I am hurt and confused, what went wrong? My short answer was: he was not interested enough to call again!
How do you know when a shy girl is interested?
Firstly, he didn't call you since the last date, there could be two possibilities, and either he is waiting for you to call or he is simply not interested. Though it may hurt you if the second possibility was real, but if you really want to find out what's going on, the best way is to call him direct and get an answer.
I believe that you must be quite an attractive woman, so whatever the outcome, even if it doesn't turn out right, its his loss, not yours. You will find someone who will appreciate you more than he does.
How to tell a man you are interested in relationship?
I am glad you found out this guy is "hot and cold" now, rather than later. You had great dates, and then POOF, he disappears.
If I were you, I would remember more things about ME than about HIM, such as: "I look very good physically and I can come up with plenty of dates". That is exactly what you should do. Because he, may feel the same way about himself.
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Bottom line: I believe a man should pursue a woman, and not just for a few dates. I can't stand it when a man does this, "juvenile" behavior. It's equally "juvenile" when a woman does it to a man; yes it's unfair both ways.
He would know, after a passionate kiss, that you are wondering what went wrong. Yet he doesn't care enough to call. That would tell me all I need to know about him: he doesn't care about my feelings. The simplest truth is: if he were still interested, he'd call.
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