Pick-up lines: when men compliment women
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I'm a bit dummy at picking up on when men are flirting with me. Usually I wait for the boyfriend to whap me on the arm and go "Oi! Pay attention over there!" when he's spotted someone chucking attention my way.
Quite possibly there's a bunch of men I could have been happily playing with who never got through to me. So, any hints I could think about that would improve my flirting technique?
Good conversation opener with a man
My near-infallible pick-up line is "So cute, you want to do some stuff?" The reason it usually works is that I use it after I deduce from my partner's non-verbal behavior that they want to do some stuff.
This is why eye contact is held slightly longer than usual. If two people "synch" with each other, they literally synchronize these subtle muscle movements in a little micro-display dance.
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Flirting is a considered a low-pressure way to do the same thing. Even if you're not flirt-blind, you can "not see" a flirt that you don't reciprocate. This is a very low pressure way to indicate interest and a very low pressure way to decline. Contrast that with the flat-out approach. The receiving party can't politely ignore the overture; they must either accept or reject.
The pressure on both parties is much higher, and the initiating party runs the risk of a clear rejection that will affect their future interactions. Unfortunately, understanding the motivations behind flirting does not improve the flirting abilities themselves.
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Bottom line: There are no guarantees in life & if you never stand up for fear of getting knocked down you'll never have the vantage point to view most men's attire the way it was intended. Go out & mingle, if you're "taken in" who cares?
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