Become friends with a man and see what happens from there
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I've been seeing this guy for a month. I was really nice to him making all I could to please him. When I asked for a date, he told me, it's so sudden that he can't make a decision that fast. First lets be friends. And we'll see what happens from there.
I know he wanted the kiss, is it normal for a guy and a girl to be friends before they become boyfriends and girlfriend.
Take your romance slowly and enjoy being with a man
I do not think that there is anything that you need to do or misinterpret in his wanting to be friends first. Just take it slowly and enjoy being with him.
Things will work out in their own good time so do not try to rush things or it could backfire.
Most guys are not heading to a one-night stand
Unlike women, guys especially ones that hadn't any relationships before have different goals in relationships. They would like to get acquainted with you first, then to have you as a friend, and eventually if there's some spark it could eventually progress into relationship.
Women usually make a mistake longing for committed relationship or sex early. I think most guys are not heading to a one-night stand. So if you want him as a boyfriend invests some time and eventually you'll progress into love.
If a man doesn't like you in a romantic way at this point
Bottom line: Before you confront him with another request for a date, you need to decide what kind of friendship you really wish for with him. Be happy that at least you let him know, instead of wasting countless hours and months pining over “ does he or doesn't he like me? ”
If he doesn't like you in a romantic way at this point, there's not much you could have done any differently. He is still lingering and hanging around you, which do show he cares about you and probably doesn't want to jeopardize the friendship. For more tips about asking men for a date, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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- Take your romance slowly and enjoy being with a man.
- So, most guys are not heading to a one-night stand.
- Your steps if a man doesn't like you in a romantic way at this point.