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I want to approach men socialize and make friendships. I've met a few guys that I would like to initiate contact.
However if I ask them out, they might think I want to start a relationship. What approach should I take to ask a man out and then once I get to know him better ask for a date?
If you know that you will see a man again you can probably get away with saying see you later after your first contact. Then the next time that you meet him you can have a chat with him again.
Sort of like building rapport with him a little bit each time. If you can manage to do this enough then before you know it you and him could become very good friends.
Please note that you can probably only use this method on men that you know that you will come across on a daily or consistent basis for example workplace.
This approach fits casual circumstance as if you see a guy in the mall or whilst walking the dog etc. Someone you have never seen before - a stranger. Then you should try to get his contact details there and at least give him yours.
Bottom line: The faster you get someone comfortable about certain subjects around you, the easier it becomes to talk about it again next time, obviously. It's just like every other person you meet.
You meet someone for the first time and talk about ordinary things, the next time you see them you think of the subjects you spoke about. Like “ Oh, there's that Jane I met yesterday, she's into computers ” ! For more tips about approaching men in casual circumstances, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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